Cleo Dunsmore Buchanan and Archangel Michael
I asked beloved Michael this morning, "Please beloved angel, will you tell me, is it better to be tough or supportive in the presence of weakness? I know many who are hamstrung by the tough love they have received in their lives. And I know others who never fly because they have been supported always and have no interest in risk. Please how do we know whether to be tough or to be supportive?"
Michael answered, "Of course this question is dear to your heart. You suffer from this injury. Who has hurt you child with their rough attitude and treatment recently? You know it is your own doing. Your interpretation of events creates the injury in yourself. You see this clearly now. So why ask the question? Do you seek to blame others?"
"Beloved angel, no. I am wondering how I should be behaving. When am I doing right and when am I being crippling when all I wish to do is love and support?"
"You are sensitive, and I ask you to consider something. What if your journey and their journey are intertwined? And each kindness and each frustration is a mutual experience? How great is your benefit when they have a breakthrough? How great is their benefit when you have a breakthrough? I see you struggle unnecessarily with this!
Many times we believe our actions lead to certain outcomes. But it is not so. The collective is creating as well. You are not in control of the outcome. There is light all around you and all around them. Each of us is a conduit of our own vibration of light. When these come together there is brilliant synergy! There is wild growth and joy!
I see you creating such in your life! I see you trusting and launching into these connections! I love this! It is joyous to behold!
However you carry this malaise, that the outcome is your responsibility. This is not so. You are part of a creative collective which fashions an experience together. There is joy in this discovery. You are not the only one creating here. It is a group responsibility."
"Beloved angel, I don’t understand. "
"Cleo, don’t you trust me to lead you well? This is great wisdom I offer you."
"Beloved, I am just asking! I don’t see how this is an answer. It doesn’t address- what happens when we must choose between support and leaving them in the cold to find their way? How can we navigate this and find benefit instead of misunderstanding and harm? It seems to me impossible- everyone’s answer must be different."
"What if it is? Your answer only you are aware of and you must constantly be aware of this and take care of it yourself. How do you get support when you need it? When do you strike out on your own and find your own strength?
You yourself are very capable of finding this balance yourself. You ask for help when you need to. You seek reassurance when you need to. You are fully aware that this dynamic can be stifling if it is not fed and nurtured with independent successes. And you seek them out when you need to, correct?
You must trust the universe. We are all here to complete this dynamic in unity. When we are part of the collective experience and everyone finds their strength, it benefits everyone tremendously. You are only opening these doors now. You have had all kinds of successes for yourself, alone. Now you are free to discover what it can mean to have this joy together, in ensemble.
Cleo I think this question is brilliant. And as a mother you must feel the importance of it. Yet we are all individuals responsible for our path through life. We choose how to go and how to see every experience. We author every moment whether we know it or not."